http://www.eroticmp.com/forum/t6-guide-for-beginners-going-to-erotic-massage-parlors.htm
It has happened to me too! Every other swinging dick in the entire society gets a great hand finish at a bare minimum at some well-reviewed hotspot and I walk away with barely being touched!
Sometimes it's just the vibe or lack of connection with the specific lady. Sometimes you're blowing it with poor signaling and making them nervous you're
LE or just a pinhead/loser/bad client.
The above thread is a great resource and if you've not spent time in it, I'd suggest trying it.
Good luck and maybe just try another different spot because you've been there more than once and no dice, odds are you've been discussed and tagged as a guy to be super cautious with. That happened to me at a coupla my old
AMP haunts and I was so utterly clueless I never figured that out until I found review sites like this one [EMP] and learned that every other dude in the world went there because the very same ladies that at most let me
DIY self-service were providing a quite scrumptious menu for the rest of the crew. Aaaaaagh... Did I feel stupid!